Good morning. Hope all of
you had a wonderful day yesterday even though it was a Monday. Mine was … interesting.
I spent some time in the morning with a friend who has been having a rough time,
but has now started a new business which she is very excited about. It’s good
to see her happy.
In the afternoon, I took
another friend to pick up a table she found that she liked, but had no way to get
home. My van was perfect for the REALLY big, heavy box. We were a bit of a
comedy routine getting the box out of my van and up onto a cart to wheel it
into her place, but after some grunting, huffing and puffing, near oopses and a
lot of giggle, we did manage.
As like many of you, I am “connected”
through many different social media outlets, one of which is LinkedIn. Through
LinkedIn, I have connected with many authors, editors, publicists, etc. It is
great. You need an answer to something, you put your question out there and
someone is bound to know the answer or at least some answer to help you. For
once, I was able to help instead of needing the help (even though I didn’t know
it). I just reacted to a situation. One of the authors I have connected with
posted a question. She asked if anyone knew how to get a review unpublished,
not because it was a bad review, which it was, but because it told the whole
story, even the twist ending. I told her to contact the site and tell them what
happened, but then I went on the site to see how bad the damage really was;
that’s when I got angry and replied directly to the person who wrote the
review. I told her she had every right not to like the book, every right to
post her opinion in the form of a bad review, honest reviews were important,
but she had no right to give away a story’s ending and spoil the book for other
readers. Just because she did not like it did not mean others wouldn’t love the
book. It was irresponsible, uncalled for and just plain cruel.
I received and email from
the book’s author late last night. She had contacted the site, but they refused
to do anything about the spoiler review. Then she told me the person who wrote
the review pulled it herself after the comment I had left. It’s nice to know I
was able to help.
As I said, my day was
interesting.
Yesterday’s challenge was:
If I had only known…
If I had only known… How many times have I uttered
those words? Too many to count, I can assure you; but then I have to think, if
I had known, would it have made a difference in the choices I made. If I had
only known XYZ company would have made it so big, would I have invested?
Honestly, probably not, because knowing and actually having the funds to invest
would have been the same. If I had known my friend was going to die when he was
so young, would I have done something different? Perhaps, but could I have
really changed the circumstances of his death, or would I have simply been
walking around on egg shells until the inevitable happened? No, I couldn’t have
changed anything and by not knowing I treated him the same right until the end.
I am thankful though my last words to him were, “I love you, but go home.” which
were uttered around two in the morning - he had just returned from a trip to
Hawaii and was not back on East Coast time yet. If I had known I could really
be a writer, would I have started writing sooner? Maybe, but I think the
experiences I have gone through in life is what has brought dimension to my
characters which would not have been there if things had not unfolded exactly
as they had.
If I had only known… It is hard not to say those
words, but I think I am better off because I had not known.
Your Next Challenge is:
Did you see that?
You have 10 minutes (be honest). There is no right
or wrong, just write. Spelling and punctuation don’t count and NO ONE is
allowed to criticize what someone else has written. Go.
Did you see that beautiful young lady all dressed up for prom last Friday? I did! I had the honor of being there to wish her off on a very special night. Life is too short to think about doing spontaneous things. Everyone should take time every day to seize the moment and spend time with people you love, try something new, and just be happy!
ReplyDeleteThe above was posted on my Facebook page by Karolyn H.
ReplyDeleteWonderful life message from a wonderful person who even took time out on her birthday to respond to a challenge.
Did you see that?? Did you happen to see how wonderful people are? We miss the goodness that pours out from those people who only are doing what is a normal thing. Help thy neighbor as you would help yourself. If is oh so wonderful that there are so many super people out there. They do not do it to get on the TV, or for a medal. They lend aid because they care.
ReplyDeleteIn the time of horror, there is good that comes out. Makes one happy to see this.
The above was posted on my Facebook page by Frank P.
ReplyDeleteUnfortunately these past few years we have got to see numerous occasions when this inherent goodness needed to come to light.
Thank you for posting again. See, I told you there was a writer trapped inside just itching to get out!